We don’t necessarily recommend or suggest any of these ideas, it was just an article that caught our attention. Read On Warriors.
The first date can make or break the rest of the relationship. It is all about chemistry and good conversation. If you don’t hit it off on date number one, forget about getting a call back for a second.
You finally pick out the perfect outfit and maybe you get your date flowers or chocolates, but where do you plan on going? Sometimes, where you are and what you are doing can play a huge role in whether things go well or not. So, picking a smart location is key in starting the relationship off on good footing.
In a recent survey done by an online dating service, respondents indicated what kinds of places they would avoid on a first date. The top ten picks may surprise you.
Family Functions
Avoid any family dinners/weddings/reunions like the plague! At 81%, family get-togethers was chosen as the biggest first date no-no by respondents. Your date will be nervous enough trying to impress you. He/she does not need the added pressure of auditioning for your family and friends as well.
It can also be an embarrassing situation for you. Most families have their skeletons and black sheep and it might be too much for your date. Save meeting the family until you have been dating for a while.
Dance Clubs
Picture this - pounding music, blinding strobe lights and a whole bunch scantily clad people bumping and grinding. Need we say more? Plus, your dance moves might not be as smooth as you think.
Bars
Some people think that alcohol is the perfect social lubricant for a first date, but it can lead to serious trouble. You might say or do something foolish. When you are drunk, everything you say and do seems super cool and funny. But when the beer-goggles wear off, you don´t want to look back and regret any decisions you made.
Movies
Although cheesy 1990´s TV shows depicted the movies as the perfect first date, the hopes of making a love connection by accidentally grazing hands when you reach into the popcorn is weak. You aren´t allowed to talk and you spend two hours sitting stiffly beside each other, staring at a screen. It gives you little chance to get to know each other and make a real connection.
Sporting Events
A date that involves face paint, the wave, and angry drunk guys screaming at the referee is no place to make a love connection. Guys who were interviewed for the survey admit that sports don´t bring out the best in men. Males may come off as too aggressive and women might find that unattractive.
The Beach
It might seem like a romantic idea - strolling bare feet on the seaside, playfully splashing one another, then falling into the waves in a passionate kiss. But, a good number of survey respondents wouldn´t want to do this on a first date. It can be intimidating wearing a bathing suit and revealing so much so soon.
Mini Golf
Trying to outsmart that windmill or flirting by showing your date how to swing a golf club may seem like a cute idea, but respondents say it is a childish plan for a first date.
Theme Restaurants
Taking your date to a cheesy restaurant where your waiter is dressed up like a medieval knight, Fred Flintstone, or a pirate with a stuffed parrot on his shoulder is definitely not a recipe for romance.
Museums
You should be able to relax and have fun on a first date. Many people cite sense of humour as the number one quality they look for in a mate. A solemn, serious museum is not an ideal place to show off your funny side.
Coffee Houses
You might think coffee is an easy, laid-back way to meet and get to know each other, but survey respondents say it lacks creativity and effort. It´s definitely not a romantic setting to sweep him/her off their feet.
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where not to take your date
So, you might be thinking: Where does that leave to take my date?! Be creative and think outside of the box. Maybe a carnival or amusement park is the place for you. How about a double-date with some close friends. Or stick with the tried-and-true, head over to a classy restaurant.
Show your date you are willing to go out of your way to plan something memorable and special. something memorable and special.
